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 作者:何湘君 2010-3-17 8:43:37  
What are the common problems between parents and childern?Describe in detail one or two things from you life to show what the problems are and state your ideal realtionship between you and your parents.
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 作者:刘嘉玲 2010-3-22 14:04:29  
As far as I am concerned, the generation gap is always caused by little communication .On the one hand, our parents are busy. We don’t have much time to together, sometimes, when we feel lonely, they just couldn’t understand. On the other hand, many of us think that we have different living conditions compared to our parents. But the truth is that we do not have much different. In my opinion, our parents are perfect, as our parents think that every child is the only one in the world, they love us and they always help us. That’s the reason why we always ask our parents for help when we are in trouble. So, if we have more communication with our parents, tell them our feelings, we can solve our problems better. Though the life is always changing, our parents’ true love will never change, whatever happened, we should respect our parents.
   So, in my opinion, the generation gap is not myth, actually, we can solve this problem if we want to begin our conversation.
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 作者:张坤 zkaick@sina.com 2010-3-22 14:05:10  
I have a big family,my mother,my father,my brother and my grandma.I love them very much and so do they.We have some problems on occassion.As a person who borned in 1990,i like some pop singers and wear colorful clothes.But my mother don`t agree me to do that.I think there is a big relation gap between me and my mother.However,it can`t influence our affection.I love my mother though we often argue about some details.
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 作者:刘嘉玲 2010-3-22 14:11:42  
As far as I am concerned, the generation gap is always caused by little communication .On the one hand, our parents are busy. We don’t have much time to together, sometimes, when we feel lonely, they just couldn’t understand. On the other hand, many of us think that we have different living conditions compared to our parents. But the truth is that we do not have much different. In my opinion, our parents are perfect, as our parents think that every child is the only one in the world, they love us and they always help us. That’s the reason why we always ask our parents for help when we are in trouble. So, if we have more communication with our parents, tell them our feelings, we can solve our problems better. Though the life is always changing, our parents’ true love will never change, whatever happened, we should respect our parents.
   And now, I always keep contact with my parents, after the communication with them, I can always feel comfortable, so, why don`t you have a try?
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 作者:何婉 2010-3-22 16:12:05  
in my mind, maybe it is the different culture and education between our parents and us that lead to the generation gap. our parents always think that they experiebced mamy things and can be able to make right decision for us. while we children also hold on that we need decide our lives all by ourselves. we need and can be independenet. in addtion, we lack comunication. we both hold on ourselves` ideas, which deepth the generation gap.
for example, my parents and i always hold different ideas in many things like study, friend , job and so on. they enjoyed safty and regular life, however, i prefer life which is full of adventure and challenge. we also have hot diiscussion for that and i faild every time because they are my parents who i must respect.but i keep my thought in my mind.
in a word, generation gap turely exist ,but if we can use the right ways ,it also can disappear.
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 作者:何婉 2010-3-22 16:13:18  
in my mind, maybe it is the different culture and education between our parents and us that lead to the generation gap. our parents always think that they experiebced mamy things and can be able to make right decision for us. while we children also hold on that we need decide our lives all by ourselves. we need and can be independenet. in addtion, we lack comunication. we both hold on ourselves` ideas, which deepth the generation gap.
for example, my parents and i always hold different ideas in many things like study, friend , job and so on. they enjoyed safty and regular life, however, i prefer life which is full of adventure and challenge. we also have hot diiscussion for that and i faild every time because they are my parents who i must respect.but i keep my thought in my mind.
in a word, generation gap turely exist ,but if we can use the right ways ,it also can disappear.
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 作者:李庭 1195453736@qq.com 2010-3-22 16:19:41  
As time goes by ,there is more and more gaps between parents and children. Parents always provide wonderful environments to them and set some strict limits on pastimes, hoping that they will become a outstanding person in the future.Children find that their parents are stabborn and cannot break the traditional belives,which makes them who don`t lack of food and clothes feel unhappy.So they would rather pour out their troubles and pleasure to their friends instead of parents within their heart.Besides,children don`t want to follow their parent`s footsteps and long for freedom eagerly.   

In my opinion,parents should not ban many things to their children and try to find more opportunities to chat with children,considering what children desire.
As a chid, we should open the door in our heart and share our happiness and sorrow with our dear parents.
In a word,there is nothing can`t solve with a deep communication.
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 作者:李桂平 2010-3-22 16:31:48  
i think the generation gap is existed all the time .because our society has been developing,our living environment is also changing .in a word a family like a small society. the trouble cant be solved. the generation gap cant be removed.but we can help the relationship become better.the first you should respect each other.this is the most important.next maybe you could often communicate with your parents,maybe you could get together to talk about the fashion,maybe you could watch some old films then have a talk with your parent,maybe.....many things you can do to establish your relationship very well.
i hope every family live a happy life ,that is my opinion,thank you.
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 作者:周林 2010-3-22 16:36:33  
To be honest ,I haven`t gotten along well with my parents .Our relationship is just between parents and daughter like the traditional family .Sometimes I complained about the generation gap bettween and why we coundn`t become the good friends .We don`t have the common interests because of the generation gap .but now ,I have changed my mind. my parents are getting older and older .All I can do for them is just to respect them .I had to say that I had ever hated them because we have the different idea and they coundn`t understand me .As a saying goes ``parents never been hated by children are not good parents .They help me a lot .I remembered all deep gratitude that I owed them all to their help.
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 作者:廖田丽 2010-3-22 16:41:38  
   In my opinion,I think the generation gap between children and parents is very common .For they always have something different in their ideas and the ways they solve the problems.
   As for me,the main disagreement between my parents and I is that they can hardly accepte my behaviour of going outside with friends a
lot.Sometimes,I may just think that they understand me so little.Actually,that the reason why I usually
go out with friends instead of just staying with them.I think my friends know me better in some aspects,so I want to talk to them when I meet something unpleasant.
   Perhaps I may find reasons from myself in the next days.Still now,I believe there is nothing that we can not do,if we try.I think we should illustrate our own opinions with our parents more.never should we keep it in mind.because nobody will know what you are thinking if you don`t talk to them.Only you can make the generation gap turn to be a happy ending!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      
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 作者:廖田丽 2010-3-22 16:43:54  
    In my opinion,I think the generation gap between children and parents is very common .For they always have something different in their ideas and the ways they solve the problems.
   As for me,the main disagreement between my parents and I is that they can hardly accepte my behaviour of going outside with friends a
lot.Sometimes,I may just think that they understand me so little.Actually,that the reason why I usually
go out with friends instead of just staying with them.I think my friends know me better in some aspects,so I want to talk to them when I meet something unpleasant.
   Perhaps I may find reasons from myself in the next days.Still now,I believe there is nothing that we can not do,if we try.I think we should illustrate our own opinions with our parents more.never should we keep it in mind.because nobody will know what you are thinking if you don`t talk to them.Only you can make the generation gap turn to be a happy ending!
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 作者:周林 2010-3-22 17:12:01  
To be honest ,I haven`t gotten along well with my parents .Our relationship is just between parents and daughter like the traditional family .Sometimes I complained about the generation gap bettween and why we coundn`t become the good friends .We don`t have the common interests because of the generation gap .but now ,I have changed my mind. my parents are getting older and older .All I can do for them is just to respect them .I had to say that I had ever hated them because we have the different idea and they coundn`t understand me .As a saying goes ``parents never been hated by children are not good parents .They help me a lot .I remembered all deep gratitude that I owed them all to their help.
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 作者:董文骐 277723715@qq.com 2010-3-22 17:32:35  
in my mind,i think my family is full of love. my father can understand me a lot,and always give me a lot of suggestions when i am in trouble. He never interfered in my life I have been given a lot of free space,so we have a quite good relationship.      try to make more communication with your parents so that you will understand each other more        090810125   董文骐
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 作者:周瑜 2010-3-22 17:34:20  
Through my personal experiences, I think that the most common problem is that each generation have different conceptions.
Just like my mother and I,her thought have little common with me. What annoies me is that she always ask me todo what I don`t like. While I am doing what I like,she always interfere me in a annoying way. So, sometimes we solving the problem by means of quarrelling. But as a daughter,I seldom take that way unless it can`t tolerate.
As we all kown, parents are hoping to contribute to their children and hoping their children have a bright future as they have set.And in some degree they certainly did make a big difference , however,in wrong way which results in seperation between themselves and children.
In my opinion,parents should give children enough space and try to understand what their children thought by making more communications. And children also should put themselves into parents shoes. Only in that way can we remove the generation gap.
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 作者:刘春媚 vivienne69@qq.com 2010-3-22 17:34:22  
In my opinion,generation gap is a big problem for a family,it often causes conflict between parents and childrenn,and leads to a unharmonious family even society.the reason is that parents and children accept different education and born in a very different time background.so their thoughts and opinions are far away from each other.For example,we are crazy about pop culture like rock music,street dance,skateboard and so on.we think those things are very cool!but our parents don`t think so.they think it`s a waste of time to do those things.
Fortunely,the generation gap is not so deep in my family. my parents never oppose me to do the things I like. so I have enough feerdom rights in my interests. I never have been quarreled with my parents and we have a good relationship. my parents are very care about my thoughts,ther let me to make most of the decisions for myself,so I cultivate a independent habit.
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 作者:陈芷娇 0903 2010-3-22 17:45:07  
Honestly,I don`t think there is generation gap.May be you will say,actually,there is generation gap.When we want to start a band or do somethings that we`d love to do,they always don`t let us do them.They say these things are boring and you should just focus on study.And you may also say,they always treat our rock music as noise.How ridiculous they are!But it seems to me that they let us study is just the show of their love and care to us.They hope us have better future by abundant konwledge.And that they don`t like the rock music is just because they live in different times with us.You should treat and understand them by your heart,they also can be your considerate friends.At least,my mom is the only one who I will tell all my secret to her.
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 作者:张晴 2010-3-22 17:49:01  
The generation gap between our parents and us were hard to say. Our parents always wse their ways to educate us. For we are living a different lifestyles from their. We can`t accept their opinion. Sometimes we might qurralled with them. But we should learn to think more about our parents, they growed up in an old society, the experiences told us how to success. They do everything for us, to make us live a happy life. We just have different ideas about life. The generation gaps maybe can devide us into pieces, but they can`t devide the relationship between parents and us. So, try to adopt this, maybe talk can make us more conprehense each other.
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 作者:翁田 815848425.qq.com 2010-3-22 17:52:13  
For many children,they would have different opinions with their parents.I think it is the different thoughts that creat the difference.If with more comunication and staying together,the situation will be better and improve.My suggestion is that everyone should be more considering and be kind to others.Parents often be busy with their work and sometimes do not have enough time to care more about their chidren,so they should try their best to spend more time with their little children, who need them a lot.For children,they can try to think in the shose of their parents.I think in this way,the generation gap will not exit
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 作者:翁田 815848425.qq.com 2010-3-22 17:53:33  
For many children,they would have different opinions with their parents.I think it is the different thoughts that creat the difference.If with more comunication and staying together,the situation will be better and improve.My suggestion is that everyone should be more considering and be kind to others.Parents often be busy with their work and sometimes do not have enough time to care more about their chidren,so they should try their best to spend more time with their little children, who need them a lot.For children,they can try to think in the shose of their parents.I think in this way,the generation gap will not exit.090810126 翁田
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 作者:张敏 sheepstone16@yahoo.com.cn 2010-3-22 17:54:20  
I think each person will come across this problem,so do I.Sometimes I will quarrel with my parents, just because they don`t understand me. When I was in senior high,my mom often asked me to review my lessons while I was watching TV.I was very angry about it. But I knew that my mom was doing good for me. In my opinion, communicating more is a good way to reduce the generation gap. As long as we communicate with our parents properly ,they will understand us , because they love us from their hearts.
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 作者:张中亚 739467898qq.com 2010-3-22 18:02:07  
in my opinion,it shouldn`t have any generation gap between parents and children.their relationship should be like friends .they can get along well in harmony atomosphere.they can share their happiness and sorrow.just like frends.good parent should show their interest as to where their children` going.kids also can`t rebel their parents all the time.teenages should be independent who wouldn`t always relay on their parents.but i fail in dealing with it well . the biggest problem is that my parent give me many many rules,for example i can watch tv only one hour everyday.i can`t get outside with my friends.i can`t take part in friend`s party.if i rebel their ban,they will be angry with me.then i have no choice but to accept the punishment.sometimes,i can`t stand.but i know what they do is all for me to behave myself.in the future,i think i will change current situation.i will tell my feeling to them.at the same time,i will listen to their suggestion which is acceptable.everything is ok!i believe!
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 作者:蒋小玲 2010-3-22 18:02:47  
   As the development of society ,there is more and more gap among people.But I think generation gap is most obvious. The reason why I think so are as follows.
   Fistly,although compared to those who lived before we have a good physicical life ,but I do not think that everyone who live nowadays happier than them. It is known to us all that we now every family has much money than pastfamilies. But fewer people living happier,moer and more parents are concentrating on making countless money ,fewer of them realize the importance of spending more and more time with their dear children. They only think that as for money ,of course,the more the better.So parents and children are getting further than before. As a result,parents are dedicated to making as much money as possible,while children are addicated to playing as much as possible.So they share common time and hobby less chance.
   Secondly,as the poor and the wealthy develop not coordinate.The distance between them is more widener.As a result,the poor family are fighting with poverty,so they do not have enough time to care about their children.Although they do not want to dessert their child,but they have no choice but to do it.
   As for me,though I come from countryside,but my parents always give me enough love and care.So I do not have much experience about it.I love my parents very much,and miss them very much.
   As a child ,as for generation gap ,I do not think I can do much about it .The only I can do is to appeal all the families to live a harmonious life as could as possible!
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 作者:龚梦君 gongmengjun@yeah.com 2010-3-22 18:04:19  
   In my view,the most common problem existing betweeen parents and children is that both side fail to stand in the other`s shoes and consider more about their problems.Here,I`d like to show you an example taken from my own experience.
    When I was still young,I disliked my parents very much.I thought that they did not care about me at all.My fellow playmates always had their parents sent them to school,and had much pocket money to buy their favourite snacks and toys.Nevertheless,I had nothing but human being`s three meals a day.However hard I tried in my study ,seldom could I get praised by them.
    I used to think that I realy had a miserable childhood,but as time went by,I realised that what my parents gave me is the authentic love for me.I feel super lucky to be blessed born in my family,and I love my family.I firmly believe that generation gap will no longer be a problem in my life.
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 作者:蒋小玲 2010-3-22 18:07:32  
As the development of society ,there is more and more gap among people.But I think generation gap is most obvious. The reason why I think so are as follows.
   Fistly,although compared to those who lived before we have a good physicical life ,but I do not think that everyone who live nowadays happier than them. It is known to us all that we now every family has much money than pastfamilies. But fewer people living happier,moer and more parents are concentrating on making countless money ,fewer of them realize the importance of spending more and more time with their dear children. They only think that as for money ,of course,the more the better.So parents and children are getting further than before. As a result,parents are dedicated to making as much money as possible,while children are addicated to playing as much as possible.So they share common time and hobby less chance.
   Secondly,as the poor and the wealthy develop not coordinate.The distance between them is more widener.As a result,the poor family are fighting with poverty,so they do not have enough time to care about their children.Although they do not want to dessert their child,but they have no choice but to do it.
   As for me,though I come from countryside,but my parents always give me enough love and care.So I do not have much experience about it.I love my parents very much,and miss them very much.
   As a child ,as for generation gap ,I do not think I can do much about it .The only I can do is to appeal all the families to live a harmonious life as could as possible!
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 作者:扶蓉 allenenglishmajor@163.com 2010-3-22 18:10:18  
Although my parents get on well with me,there are still some problems between us.
I like watching TalkShows,because it can make me relax,and I can know more things at the same time.But my parents don`t agree with me,they even hate it.They think it`s boring and it cater to the lowest tastes.Till now,we don`t have same opinion on this problem.
On the other hand,I like shopping.But sometimes,my mother don`t have enough time to go with me,at that moment I hope my father can.When my father and me arrived at shopping street,my father won`t move any step.He prefers to sit on the his motor than go with me. Everytime my friends tell me,her father is very willing to take her to clothes shop, I`m admired her very much.
In my opinion,I think the parents should understand children more,respect their tastes.Spending more time to accompany their chilren,not just keep their own style as parents.Let them do what they want to do in one way.
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 作者:卢星 1270500499@qq.com 2010-3-22 18:10:57  
Nowadays,the problem of generation gap becomes more and more serious. I have some problems in communicating with my parents. When i talk abou one topic, they often hold different opinions on various problenas in life. And they have particular demands on me. They want me do everything that they think i should do. As a daughter, i prefer to communicate with my mother rather than communicate
with my father,because i think i can share some secrets which i cannot talk to father with her.
In rny opinion, generation gap can be bridged as long as both parents and children are willing to make efforts. They must have more communicating in daily life.As parents,they should allow their kids to have different views and respect for their oppinions.
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 作者:扶蓉 allenenglishmajor@163.com 2010-3-22 18:11:49  
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 作者:龚梦君 gongmengjun@yeah.com 2010-3-22 18:12:28  
In my view,the most common problem existing betweeen parents and children is that both side fail to stand in the other`s shoes and consider more about their problems.Here,I`d like to show you an example taken from my own experience.
    When I was still young,I disliked my parents very much.I thought that they did not care about me at all.My fellow playmates always had their parents sent them to school,and had much pocket money to buy their favourite snacks and toys.Nevertheless,I had nothing but human being`s three meals a day.However hard I tried in my study ,seldom could I get praised by them.
    I used to think that I realy had a miserable childhood,but as time went by,I realised that what my parents gave me is the authentic love for me.I feel super lucky to be blessed born in my family,and I love my family.I firmly believe that generation gap will no longer be a problem in my life.
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 作者:周萍 zhoupingcl@126.com 2010-3-22 18:12:53  
I admit that today`s generation gap is a very common phenomenon of social,and even between the children and their parents simply can not communicate with.However, I don`t think that there is a generation gap exist, even if we parents have different ideas and concepts,that`s because we have different historical backgrounds, and different lifestyles.Parents educate us in their ways which they think right.I must say that is because they love us,and want to give us more and better.So, I think between the parents and the children can not be isolated from nature, as long as we try to better understand each other`s ideas, and communicate more, we will be the closest friends.
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 作者:周萍 2010-3-22 18:16:20  
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 作者:丁蜓 961225804@qq.com 2010-3-22 18:16:34  
Generation Gap is very common in our society.When I was in middle school ,my parents and I have a lot of unhaappy conversations. They always compared me with other students in my class and my neighbours who were similar with my age . I often be told that ;you should study hard ,see them ,how clever they are! If only you can be so clever,and you must set them as an example and learn from them.Everytime I heard it ,I was very disappointed and want to run away as soon as possible.In my opinion,everyone is different and have their own advantage and other good aspects.Why our parents must require their child like others ? Why they consider the marks so importantly and regard it as the unique standard to value if we are good child or student .I think it is unfair and wrong,so I often have some quarrel with them .This lead our relationship became more and more nervous.One time ,we did not talk with each other for nearly a month.During these days ,I put ourselves to their situation ,as they did .we thought a lot and at last we understand each other.
As far as I am concerned , communication is alway the best way to solve or melt the Generation Gap !
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 作者:何青春 2010-3-22 18:20:27  
Generation Gap,as a common problem in chinese family,has caught many people`s attention.
In my opinion, the lack of communication, different views on certain problems and different attitudes towards life may cause the generation gap or even widen it.
as for me,i often complain my parents are out of touch with today`s modern society.and i don`t want to reveal my feelings to them because i think that they can not understand me very well.when i am up and everything goes well i will share my happiness with my friends instead of my parents.and when my world comes crushing down i also go to my friends for help.i known that this may be not good to our parents.but i really don`t known what to do about it.
As we all known that generation gap is inevitable.but,there must be some ways for us to let it down.I think to bridge the generation gap, mutual understanding is very important. On one hand, parents view does reflect their concerned for the wellbeing of their children. On the other hand, children should talk with their parents and understand them well. Therefore, it will be wise for parents and their children view each other as friends.
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 作者:黄成 2010-3-22 18:34:43  
    Generation gap is a serious problem which troubleb every family member very much.we suffer from it ,and of course all of us hate it.Actually,it`s not a myth!We want to sweep it ,so let`s take some steps to make it!As a daughter,in fact I always feel sorry to my dear dad,I often assured him that everything is under my control and he will never comlain about my work in school.I just want to say;I am so sorry! Like many other children,I always feel annoyed about our parents` endless talking and peeping, we think it`s noisy or terrible,we can`t stand it,and then ,went away .To tell you the truth,I think we don`t want this kind of ending in our deep heart.
So,let`s spare every efforf to show our love and admiration of our great parents!We should pay more attention to our parents,take care of them.Call more ,and every time when they ask you something、or talk something you don`t want to say 、or even that topic may make us annoyed,ia this case,do not show your disappointment clearly,just listen to them,because there is no other kind of love can compared to the love from our parents.They devote their whole life to us,and never think we can pay them back something.
    It`s required that both children and parents should communicate more with each other,be more thinkable .we can buy something in every important festival of them,do our work well as possible as we can.
     In the near future,we should achieve our late dream--show our wonderful love to them,just like the sunshine from them.You will see you can do it!
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 作者:肖湘凤0904 kbkydwswan@sina.com 2010-3-22 19:01:32  
   Genegration gap is never strange for me.
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 作者:肖湘凤 2010-3-22 20:31:40  
Generation gap is never strange for me .
In my parents’ eyes ,I must be very good child. You can hardly find such a child who always listen to what their parents have told her ,who cares her parents ,who never argue with her parents. I am such a child indeed .Because I love my parents very much and I know that their love for me is beyond measure.
Every parent is a painter. They paint a most beautiful future for their child. As long as a child is born, they guide their child to go in the way they have paint for her/him .And so did my parents.
My father is a typical Chinese father. Loving but also demanding, he had made particular demands on me. As autocratic as him, he’d like me to do all the things he wants me to do. And I would do most of the things in order not to hurt his heart.
But does it mean that I am only a docile girl and that I am no longer a autonomous people?
No! I am still the one who I think I am and should be. Obedience does not mean surrender. I have my own head and thoughts and I can tell what I should and should not do.
The relationship between my parents and I seems quite well. But there is also a generation gap between us. I never told my inside thoughts to them.
The reason why I don’t tell them is that I don’t want them to worry about me . Parents are tend to exaggerate facts related to their child. And I think that ereryone should have secrets and we don’t need to tell all of them to our parents .It’s a private area in our hearts.
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 作者:肖志林0904 1013987444@qq.com 2010-3-22 21:36:09  
In my opinion, the biggest problem between my parents and me is that we don`t communicate with each other very often .If we have some problems ,we don`t talk to each other .We have different attitude towards life .My parents just told me what should I do ,but don`t ask my advise .This made me very unhappy .I think they don`t respect me .As far as I am concernted,the ideal relationship between my parents and me is like friends .We discuss our problems and talk about our interest with each other .The most important is that we stand on the other`s position.
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 作者:肖志林0904 1014987444@qq.com 2010-3-22 21:58:59  
In my opinion, the biggest problem between my parents and me is that we don`t communicate with each other very often .If we have some problems ,we don`t talk to each other .We have different attitude towards life .My parents just told me what should I do ,but don`t ask my advise .This made me very unhappy .I think they don`t respect me .As far as I am concernted,the ideal relationship between my parents and me is like friends .We discuss our problems and talk about our interest with each other .The most important is that we stand on the other`s position. We should consider other`s feeling . I always dreaming that we becomes friends . How wonderful it is . On that day ,we can talk with each other freely .We would not be afraid so much . In my view, as long as we try our best to overcome the difference between us ,we can resolve the generation gap.
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 作者:何涵睿 584518185@qq.com 2010-3-22 23:36:27  
Generation gap doesn`t seem to be a big problem in my family, because I usually communicate with my parents, we can talk about everything like friends, although sometimes we have disagreement between each other, finally we will find a solution, I don`t think it is difficult, perhaps my situation is special, most times we`d rather not talk to them, that is a stupi way, and it will not do anything good for you, I think the best way to solve this problem is that you should open your heart to your parents, at the same time, your parent should understand you, not just complain and against us, most parents don`t understand what we are thinking about, but we cannot fight or quarrel with them, we must persuade them or be persuaded, discussion will help us find the best way.
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 作者:杨敏 yangmintom@qq.com 2010-3-22 23:58:41  
as far as i`m concerned ,gernation gap isn`t a myth.firstly ,it is a fact that there exsits gap between my parents and i ,especially when i had a knoledge of modern information while my parents didn`t make sense of them.so ,we will get on the track when we release our opion on something,occasionly.recently,i understand my parent`s stucking pains ,so selfish was i that i took my parens`s feelings.sometimes ,i mean,we should communicate with each other,esp.consider other`s feelings on his or her feet.then the gap may be melted gradually. 0904 杨敏 090810142
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 作者:周智霞 xiaozhi00@139.com 2010-3-23 10:16:24  

In my opinion, communication is the common problem between parents and children. Just as the generation gap we always said.
We are born in different times which make our thought very different from each other. For me ,in my family ,I always have little to talk with them in some aspects. I never tell them about my deep thought, I think they can’t understand me very well. And that’s true. I remermber when I was a child,they allow me not to play with my classmates instead of doing my homework. I can’t understand them.
I think the most prefect relationship between us is just let me do everything what I want. But of course it’s right thing.
Maybe , many years later, we can deal with the problem better.
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 作者:胡娜 a43068119891125@qq.com 2010-3-23 18:34:26  
In my opinion, parents and children, a generation gap in our society is widespread. Parents and children live in different times, different experiences, resulting in ideological differences,while there is lack of communication between them,making the gap more deeper.
   I think we should do efforts to change the relationship with our parents.We can take the first step to communicate with them,if they know what thoughts we have,they could know well why we do that.Aslo,we should considerate what our parents have done. If so We can creat more peaceful relationship with parents.
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 作者:徐京京 sophie200918@qq.com 2010-3-24 8:32:10  
In my opinion,It is the generation gap that stop parents and children from getting on well with each other.Sometimes our parents can not understand our trouble ,for instance ,my mother often ask me,why I can not get hight grade,she mean I do not think anything ,like money and so on.so when we are in trouble Ido not know who I can turn to .I just hope parents can understand us,just like my friends .
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 作者:黄敏 1282806435@qq.com 2010-3-24 9:07:38  
In my opinion,it is impossible to avoid for parents and children had grown in different atmosphere ,so they differ in opinions about life.Strict but out of love,parents frequently try they best to know more about kids by wrong ways,such as peeping insquisitively into the diary or tracing kids.
    Unvoidable as it,we can take steps to narrow it.community and cimprehension will do good to relationship,for it never lead direct conflict between them.Whats more,it is unnecessary for parents to compare their kids to others,just for everyone is unique and has his or her own advavtages.
   At the same time,the young need to stop complaining about the surroundings and learn to be thankful to their parents.patient and modest,only by owning the qualities,can our young people have a bright future.
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 作者:王洁 292925822@qq.com 2010-3-24 9:11:39  
With the development of the society,many things are changing,for example,people`s thoughts,behaviorsand so on.These days,young people always want to go with the tide,but adults cannot accept these change immediately.So,nowadays,young people always think that their parents cannot understand them.They often quarrel with their parents.In my opinion,on one hand,we,as children of our parents,should show understanding and sympathy for our parents`care.Our parents give us life,bring us up,they just want us to have a good future.So,we should understand them.On the other hand,maybe our parents should change some thoughts,the world changes all the time after all.Everyone should find their feet.Therefor,please don`t blame children unless they go too far.We just need more communication,we should understand each other.
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 作者:马跃 2010-3-24 9:18:25  
As far as I am concerned,a generation gap becomes a socially problem.It is very common in every family.ButI think it means that there is deep love between children and parents,however,they have different opinions about the same thing,they still have something in common and have a harmony.They are concerned about each other.So,I do not think generation gap is a bad,terrible stuff.
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 作者:刘洁 463608439@qq.com 2010-3-24 9:27:37  
In modern society, there is often a hck of understanding between parents and children. Purents dislike what their children think and do, while children often complain that their parents can not understand them. This is often called generation gap.As we all know,it broaden the brige between the parents and us.but what can we do to melt it away? That`s mutual understanding . On one hand, children should talk with their parents and understand them well.on the other hand,parents should pay more attention to what the childen really need? Therefore, it will be wise for parents and their children regard each other as friends.
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 作者:Wendy 2010-3-24 16:59:31  
I firmly believe: love will resolve any problem between parents and children. However, a wealth of harms are in the name of love.
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 作者:邓偲 861751255@qq.com 2010-3-27 16:14:10  
There are three people in my famliy,my father,my monther and I.I think my famliy is a happy famliy which is full of langhter.The difference is that with other families, and we get along as friends.In my opinon, my parents are very open-minded person, their thoughts keep pace with the trend,so we have nothing to bridge the generation gap
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 作者:钟佳 564395556@qq.com 2010-3-28 15:20:01  
   In my opinion,the common problem between parents and children is the generation gap.The thougths in minds are different from each other.prarents always can not understand the behavio of children,so do children .
   when I was a child,I liked singing and dancing,my dream was being a dancer .however,my farther obejected the crazy idea.As far as he concerned ,I would be looked down if I were a dancer.I could`nt read his mind,and nothing I can do about it but thougt he was a outdate man.many years have gone by ,I have been start trying to understand my farther,my father is a representer of their times.my father try to change his idea toward our action .
     personally,I think that to solve the problem beteew parents and children ,both of two sides should try to think or do something on each other`feet.only by doing that can we understand each other better.
     now my father suports me to learn dance as a hobby and he always stand by me no matter what I want to do !
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 作者:李晶晶 1210701766@qq.com 2010-3-29 13:39:19  
   Just my personal opinion,Generation gap isn`t a myth ,while it`s a serious problem between parents and children.As is known to us, with the development of the society ,things change quickly,young people like to follow the fashion and they can accpet the new things easily .
For one thing ,parents are absorbed in work which results in the situation that they have no time to care about thier childern .For another thing ,when they have a conversation,parents try to use thier troditional opioions to persuade childern,whereas chidern have their own idea,as a result,thry usually have a unhappy talk which makes things more terrible.
When I was in my middle school ,I also meet the same problem,but graully I got it that we shoud understand our parents ,it`s love which makes the situation.Becuase parents want us will have a nice and no difficulty future,they hope us can follow their steps.To solve the problem,the most important thing is to conmmunicate.As far as I am concerned,if we communicate more ,there is no doubt the problem will be solved.(0901班李晶晶)
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 作者:何嘉欢 h349200746@yahoo.com.cn 2010-3-29 15:20:00  
   Have you ever told your parents ``Please let me alone”? Have you ever shouted at your parents “You don’t understand me”? Have you ever quarrelled with your parents whether to take part in the parties? I have experienced all the things before,and as far as I concerned this is called “generation gap”.
   For me generation gap is a problem which is common in my daily life.And this kind of problem exist always means that our parents are showing their profund love ! In their opinion they always think that only by doing these can they help us grow successfully .Such as,when I was in high school in grad 3, bacause of the final exam was coming, my parents didn’t agree with me to go out to celebrate my close friends’ birthday.They thought, as a student should regard study as The most important thing.Students can’t waste time in that kind of things,after graduate from high school they will have a lot of time spend together.However,in my opinion,friends are necessities in a persons daily life,so we have to cherish everytime together with them.And I don’t agree that students have to study all the time even though the exam was just around the corner.
   Besides that as far as I concerned ``generation gap`` is a understandable situation and can be solved very well.Because parents and their son/daughter have different back ground and social experiences this will cause to their different way of thinking and opinions.So I think all we need is to communicate with each other sincerely and show our suggestions peacefully.And I believe if we always hear each other attentively ,all of us can enjoy everyday and say “goodbye” to the “generation gap”
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 作者:何湘君 2010-3-31 22:01:30  
Perhaps our minds are shaped by the cultural events that we experience as we are growing up. When we try to communicate with or understand those who have not experienced that, it doesn`t work.
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 作者:梁倩 2010-4-7 8:51:29  
Generation gap is becoming a more and more commen problem in our modern society,because we and our parents are always apart and seldom communicate.Take myself as an example,I always at shcool and I can even make no telephone call to my parents for a tern.I think I would rather communicate with my friends than my parents because my friends can understand me better.but then one day I happenly called my parents,I can certainly feel their excited and happiness on the other side .And ask me for ins and outs .From then I think generation gap is not such a myth,we just need more chatting aboat our daily life .so call you parents more ofen.

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